GENDER. ✨

A Weird Thing for me over the years; I've gone back and forth on exact terms, pronouns... it all feels nebulous and strange to think or talk about, and has changed up a lot over the years. This is subject to change in the future, of course, and I am open to the change, but for the moment, I align somewhere with nonbinary lesbian. I like women, but to stick myself into that box entirely feels odd. I'm somewhere closer to genderfluid, or agender, if I had to choose, but even then those don't perfectly fit. Which is fine.

Mostly, I wanted this page to capture the aesthethics and presentation. Pearls, frills, bows, powder periwinkle and gold, opulence, maximalism, fem in a masc way. Princely? Does that make sense at all? Describing gender is difficult, but showing it in a 'moodboard' style? Less so. Behold, my GENDER MOOD: complete with characters, fashion, and text that are the Vibe. More may be added/changed as I learn about myself! also, if you feel inspired, I'd love if other people made 'gender inspo' pages on their sites!! Even if you are cisgender, I still think it's fun to think about how you personally relate to the concept of gender and how you choose to present that to the world. Yes, the music is Important to set the Gender Mood too btw. :-)


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